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My 10-year-old son Will and I share a common love—baseball.
While
he’s not naturally gifted at playing the game, Will loves to be part of
the team, and as with most kids his age his skills have progressed each
year through repetition and practice.
This past spring, Will
graduated from coach-pitch to kid-pitch, which brought with it both
excitement and anxiety. However, after only a few games I could see that
anxiety largely overshadowed the excitement.
Will hit the ball
well during practices and pre-game warm ups, but as soon as he stepped
in the batter’s box, fear froze him in his tracks—so much so that he
would not even move when an errant pitch came right at him.
In
the very first game, he was hit in the arm by a pitch. The painful
experience only served to make him more fearful of batting. I joked with
him after the game, “I know it hurt, buddy, but at least you didn’t get
hit in the face.” And, wouldn’t you know it, the very next game, a wild
pitch hit him square in the face.
Added to this, he struck out
several times because he never swung the bat. This only intensified his
timidity. Soon, whenever his turn at bat approached, he complained of
feeling nauseous.
Following one of his games, I asked, “Will,
what goes through your mind when you’re up to bat?” Will replied, “I’m
afraid I’m going to strike out or get hit by the ball.” He was so afraid
of pain, failure and embarassment that he did not even want to try.
I
then gave him some baseball advice that eventually became a mantra we
would repeat before every game and every at-bat: “If you never swing the
bat, you will never hit the ball.” I encouraged him to swing at every
pitch, even if it was outside the strike zone.
Over the course of
the season Will began to swing the bat more and more. Yes, he still
struck out on occasion, but he also began to put the ball in play and
advance his teammates around the base paths.
And then the big
moment came—Will got a base hit. The look of excitement on his face was
priceless. And, of course, this success strengthened his resolve to
swing again during his next at-bat.
Our mantra—If you never swing
the bat, you will never hit the ball—reminds me of a similar statement
by Southwestern Seminary evangelism professor Matt Queen to those who
fear the pain of failure, rejection or embarrassment when sharing their
faith: “Not every time you share the gospel will someone profess
Christ, but if you never share the gospel, you’ll never see anyone
profess Christ.”
For many Christians, especially those of us who
are not naturally gifted evangelists, the prospect of sharing our faith
leaves us terrified and frozen in our tracks. Even the thought of it
brings a nauseous feeling. Rather than risk “striking out” in a
witnessing encounter, we sit idly by and refuse to say a word.
Maybe
the remedy is simply to start swinging. Thankfully, God measures
success in evangelism by obedience, not decisions. A rejection of the
gospel is a rejection of Jesus, not of us. So, in a sense, we never
strike out when we evangelize.
We must faithfully obey our Lord’s
Great Commission and let the Holy Spirit do his work. Sometimes, we
swing and miss. Other times, we plant or water gospel seeds, advancing a
person’s understanding of his need for the Lord. Given enough swings,
eventually we will experience the exhilarating joy of seeing someone
come to faith in Christ. And with every swing we gain confidence for
future opportunities.
Last week, the tables turned—Will became the
teacher; I became the student. As the first day of school approached,
Will said, “I can’t wait to start school so I can tell my friends about
Jesus.”
He will likely never be a professional baseball player,
but Will understands what it means to overcome his fears and swing for
the fences when it comes to sharing his faith.
What if Christians
took the Great Commission seriously and decided to risk failure,
rejection and embarrassment to share the life-changing gospel of Jesus
Christ? What if we intentionally sought out opportunities to share the
gospel with family, friends, co-workers or those we meet as we go about
our daily lives?
This week, pray for opportunities to share your
faith, pray for boldness to witness when God brings someone across your
path (and he will), and pray that the gospel would show its power.
If the thought of this makes you nauseous, remember: If you never swing the bat, you will never hit the ball.
This article first appeared in the TEXAN digital edition.